How to say "to lose sb one relies upon" in Chinese
失恃
shī shì
social · communication · beginner · neutral
When To Use It
"to lose sb one relies upon" maps to 失恃 (shī shì), a neutral social phrase for communication situations.
Use it when you need to keep a conversation moving despite a language gap, unclear wording, or missing context.
Practice it first exactly as written, then swap in your own people, places, or objects so it becomes part of your active speaking repertoire.
Tone And Delivery
The register is neutral, which makes it flexible: safe in most daily situations without sounding stiff or overly intimate.
Because this is marked beginner, you should aim to recognize it instantly and reuse it with your own names, nouns, locations, or numbers.
A good practice target is the example sentence 失恃 (shī shì). Once that feels natural, shorten your pause and try it at conversation speed.
Practice Ideas
This phrase becomes more useful when you learn it as part of a mini-sequence. After saying it, a natural next step could be 悬河 (xuán hé).
A second nearby phrase to review is 情头 (qíng tóu), which helps you stay in the same topic instead of translating from scratch again.
- Read the example “to lose sb one relies upon” aloud, then replace one detail with your own information.
- Pair it with “"hanging" river (an embanked one whose riverbed is higher than the surrounding floodplain)” next so your conversation does not stop after a single line.
- Match the phrase to your tone of voice: soft for polite requests, flatter and quicker for routine daily use.
- If you hear a slightly different version in the wild, compare the tone and context before treating it as interchangeable.
Examples
失恃
shī shì
to lose sb one relies upon
Related
- "hanging" river (an embanked one whose riverbed is higher than the surrounding floodplain) — 悬河 (xuán hé)
- "lovers' avatar" – avatar that matches the avatar of a significant other (e.g. two halves of one image, two images drawn in a similar style etc), used to indicate a romantic relationship (abbr. for 情侶頭像|情侣头像[qing2 lu : 3 tou2 xiang4]) — 情头 (qíng tóu)
- "the Eight Great Eminent Officials" of the CCP, abbr. for 八大元老[Ba1 Da4 Yuan2 lao3] — 八老 (bā lǎo)
- "the four classes" of ancient China, i.e. scholars, farmers, artisans, and merchants — 四民 (sì mín)
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Phrase FAQ
How do you say "to lose sb one relies upon" in Chinese?
失恃 (shī shì).
When should I use this phrase?
Use it in communication situations where a neutral tone fits. Because it is tagged beginner, it is meant to be practical and reusable rather than literary or highly specialized.
Is pronunciation included?
Yes. Every phrase page includes pinyin with tone marks, plus example sentences so you can hear how the wording expands in real use.
What should I learn next after this phrase?
A useful follow-up is 悬河 (xuán hé) — ""hanging" river (an embanked one whose riverbed is higher than the surrounding floodplain)". Studying connected phrases in small clusters makes them easier to recall in conversation.